I learned something recently that blew my mind. By the time the average child reaches the age of 17, she has heard the word No approximately 150,000 times. Yes, you read that right. No….150,000 times in 17 short years. What’s even more disturbing is that this same average child has only heard Yes approximately 5000 in those same 17 years. Let’s break it down even more. The average 1 year old hears the word No approximately 400 times PER DAY! And that number does not improve as she moves more deeply into her toddlerhood.
But think about it. What do we do when we see a baby about to touch a breakable or even worse, something that can hurt them? We say No….not once, but several 
times. “No, no, no. Don’t touch that. You will get hurt.” That’s technically 4 Nos is one sentence being imprinted on a baby’s clean slate of a brain.
Do you see how we have been taught (programmed) to live in a Universe where the word NO is the norm and Yes is a rarity? We’re taught that NO is the norm and NO is what keeps you safe.
So, the next time you catch yourself saying No to a new opportunity that could help you to be happier, think about how you were programmed and take the first step to breaking free from your No Universe. Say Yes instead and let yourself have the experience of something new. Even if it doesn’t work out the way you wanted, you’ll still be exercising your Yes muscle and that’s what will set you free.
Have you gotten your #24kt Clarity Session yet? It’s time to begin freeing you from your No universe and get you firmly started on your path to happiness and freedom, and fulfillment.
Much love and abundant blessings,
