Traditionally, February is the month of love. If you live in the United States, there is no escaping February 14-Valentine’s Day. While Valentine’s Day is promoted as a day of love and joy with hearts and Cupids everywhere you turn, in my opinion, it can be one of the saddest days of the year. For those who don’t have a partner or who have lost loved ones it can be exceedingly lonely. Here’s the thing about love, though. It comes in many forms… self-love, romantic love and love for others.
There are many crystals which attract love in one form or another. Each has its own vibration and personality. Carrying them with you helps shift your energy. Wear them near your heart, meditate with them, do whatever feels right.
If you’re looking to bring more love into your life, the first thing you need to be able to do is open yourself up to it and accept it. Rhodochrosite is a good choice for that. Rhodochrosite heals the emotional heart. It helps one do what needs to be done to heal emotional wounds and learn the art of self-love. It teaches you how to have compassion for yourself. Spend some time getting lost in the beauty of this stone and fall in love with yourself… again, or for the first time. Let it help heal your wounds and open you up to love. Rhodochrosite will help you find the courage to do what you need to do in order to love and allow love in.
Now that you’ve opened the door and learned how to accept love, it’s time to attract it. I suggest rose quartz for this purpose. It not only helps attract romantic relationships, it also resonates with the vibration of unconditional love. If you are using this (or any) crystal to attract a romantic partner, please be very clear in your intentions and know that you cannot choose a specific person. Stay open to the options the Universe provides. If you meditate with a rose quartz crystal, you will find its energy to be soft and gentle. You will also discover that supports self-love and compassion for yourself and others, plus it’s another pink crystal that helps heal the
emotional heart.
Okay, you’ve opened the door to love, learned how to accept love, and attracted love. Now, it’s time to give some back. For this, I’m going to recommend rhodonite. Rhodonite is a stone that supports altruism. It teaches one that giving freely is far more rewarding than giving-to-get. If you’re one who would like to give and help others, but don’t know how, rhodonite will show you the way. It brings your gifts and talents to light and shows you how to use them to be of service to others. While rhodonite focuses more on giving and sending love, it still supports self-love.
Learning to love and experience love fully is more than simply carrying crystals. You still need to do the inner work. However, the energy of specific crystals will help support your process. Remember, first you want to open up to love (rhodochrosite). Then, you attract love (rose quartz). Finally, share the love (rhodonite).
