One of my usual long term triggers showed up this week.  It’s nothing new.  This trigger and I have become old friends in a way.  It shows up, I panic.  Then I beat myself up because I’m a healer and I should know better by now blah, blah blah.

The thing is, I’m also human and I’m not perfect.

When the trigger showed up, I went into my habitual verbal dialogue and then I noticed something.  I noticed that even though my circumstances didn’t change, even though I still didn’t have a solution, I wasn’t anxious.  I didn’t get a sick feeling inside.  I didn’t have that low grade  inner negative self-talk going on about how I’m a healer and should be over this already.  I was saying the words on the outside, but inside there was peace.  There was calm.  There was freedom.

But….here’s the thing about feeling free when you still have challenges….your head doesn’t know what the hell to do with it.  What I realized was that when I have the negative emotions to back up the challenge, I feel like I’m doing something, anything that will help clear up the issue.  Have you ever felt like this?

The truth is, we’re not helping at all.  If anything, we’re fueling the fire.

When I talk about the trigger and there is nothing to fuel it, it just feels weird.  Like I’m lying to myself about there being a problem, even though it’s a real issue in the 3-D world.  The freedom that I craved brought me to a place of un-comfortability that had to be breathed through.  And, I gotta say, my head was trying to convince me that if I didn’t have fears and emotions to back up my problem, I wouldn’t look for  a way to solve it.  Really?  Talk about mind games.  The stuff we do to ourselves to support our feelings of wrongness amazes me.

It’s really cool knowing that while I still have the same issue, I can view it from a space of neutrality.  It’s no longer draining me of my power, my intuition, and my energy. And, I don’t have to waste additional energy dealing with the emotions, which leaves more energy to do stuff I enjoy.

Now, I know I’m in the sweet spot.  The spot that opens up the energy and allows the solutions and the steps I need to take to actually come through.  This is the reason that I created the Reclamation of Power Technique.  To get back to the sweet spot of personal power.  To be able to see through life’s challenges and be happy anyway.

Would you like to be free?  Would you like to know what it feels like to be in your power and deal with life’s challenges instead of letting your challenges run your life?

This week I’m highlighting the  Reclamation of Power Reading-Healing.  We’ll pick an area of your life that you want to work on, pinpoint the underlying issue and clear the crap out of it so  you can feel confident and know what you need to do to overcome the challenge.

If you’re ready to feel peaceful and strong regardless of what’s going on in your world, this is the  session for you.

Get yours now. 

                     

Have you joined Spiritual Perfectionists Anonymous yet?

I felt like we needed someplace that would help make it easier for our infinite beings to live in our human bodies so I created a new Facebook group,  Spiritual Perfectionists Anonymous.  I call it the un-12 step program for recovering spiritual (and life) perfectionists. We support each other in learning how to stop trying to be perfect.  There are days where we set intentions and days where we acknowledge our problems as well as our gifts.  Wednesdays I get on Periscope and do a reading for the week and more.  Plus, it’s an ad-free, judgment-free space. How does it get any better than that?

Hang out with us and see if you like it.  If you don’t, you can always leave the group.

Have a great rest of the week.  I hope to connect with you soon.

Much love and abundant blessings,