So many people are attracted to spirituality and New Age teachings because they want to follow their hearts and live in flow only to discover spiritual teachers and new age gurus have more rules than military school.
Let’s take negative thoughts. Holy crap! I can’t tell you how many clients have come to me worried that what they want isn’t manifesting because they got pissed off at little Johnny for pulling their ponytail in 1972. They’re sure they’re still resenting little Johnny and that’s causing them to have negative thoughts that they’re unaware of and those thoughts are keeping them from having what they want.
What a crock of shit.
Or that the Universe is immediately going rain down boatloads of bad luck and horrible outcomes on them.
Or they were told they’re not getting what they want because everything comes in “Divine Timing”. Divine Timing is just another way of keeping people stuck. Do you know when the time is right? The time is right when YOU decide it’s right. When you actually decide to have what you want, find the right actions that will cause you to be aware of it and actually take those actions.
If you believe you’ve been given free will, then why would the Universe hold something back from you?
It can’t. It doesn’t have an opinion. It responds to your dominant thoughts, actions, emotions, and energy (which is really just a combination of the first three).
Does it really make sense that people are allowed to go to war but you’re not allowed to have the little red convertible you love?
Let’s get real here…the Universe doesn’t choose and it doesn’t hold things back.
So, what could actually be keeping you from manifesting what you want? What could actually be keeping you from making more money? Having more clients? Finding a house you love?
Procrastination is one possibility. You know that thing you need to do but keep putting it off? Doing the thing you don’t want to do is often the key to breaking through.
Indecision is another possibility. When you flip-flop like that your dominant energy is push-pull. The energy being sent out to the Universe is chaotic and confusing.
It’s no different from the conversation with your husband that goes something like this:
You: Do you want to go to dinner tonight?
Him: Sure
You: Where do you want to go?
Him: I don’t know. Where do you want to go?
You: I don’t know. What kind of food do you feel like having?
Him: I don’t know. What do you want?
And this goes on for so long that you give up and find yourselves having peanut butter and jelly on stale bread because no one made a decision. If the Universe is delivering peanut butter and jelly on stale bread when what you really wanted was a T-bone steak, indecision could be the culprit.
Perfectionism is also a possibility. Perfectionism actually causes you to second guess yourself and keeps you from taking action. It causes you to wonder if you’re making the right decision so you don’t stick to anything. It causes you to wait for the “perfect action” or the “perfect time” before doing anything…and that perfect action and perfect time never shows up because it doesn’t exist in the way you’re imagining. And what happens? You get a whole lot of nothing.
Take a minute to be really real here. Where are you doing this in your life? What’s it keeping you from having what you want? How’s it making you feel? How do you actually want to feel?
With that in mind, you can change your approach. You can stop waiting and take imperfect action so that you can get more feedback. And use that feedback to reassess and take more action. That alone has a high probability of speeding up the timeline.
And if you want to speed things up even more I can help you. Let’s hop on a complimentary call.
We’ll take a look at your goals and see if they need tweaking.
I’ll help you determine what’s holding you back.
AND then we’ll come up with your next right step so you can get back on track.
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Click here to message me now so I can give you my calendar link before they’re all booked up. And remember, 𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘧𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘴𝘯’𝘵 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴. 𝘐𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘩𝘢𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘰𝘸𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘢𝘮𝘢𝘻𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴.Let’s get you started.
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Robin
