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The Daily Clearing

The Clearing You Didn’t KnowYou Needed

This  3:42 clearing covers everything you need to get things running smoothly so you can get back to what you do best.

What It Really Takes to Change

I think one of the things that frustrates me most about making some kind of life change is choice. I’ve yet to see or hear a teacher, therapist or personal development specialist talk about what it takes to make a choice. The stuff that comes before making a choice.

You want to lose weight? Good. Just make the choice to do it and then take action.
You want your soul mate? Good. Just make the choice to have and then take action.
You want more money? Good. Just make the choice to have and then take action.

That really is all there is to it and yet, it’s not that fucking simple. And because it’s not that simple when you can’t make a choice or you feel like you made the choice and things aren’t changing, you feel like a frikkin’ loser.

Look, when I made the choice to take back my life, it required me to make a million other choices in order to make it happen…and frankly, most of those choices were hard and painful.

It started with recognizing that I was dying inside and then making the choice to live. And I had to make that choice every single day…several times a day.

When the opportunity for me to move out showed up, I had to make a million choices before choosing to move out. I had to choose to let myself leave without my kids. I had to choose to leave most of my material possessions behind. I had to choose to leave my dogs.
I had to choose to risk being judged by friends and family.

And at its core was again making the choice to either live or die.

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None of those choices were easy and I had to live with those choices as well as the consequences and gifts. Ultimately, I ended up on food stamps because I chose to live. I ended up missing being there for my kids when they were sick because I chose to live. I ended being judged harshly because I chose to live.

When I chose to live, I chose to accept help from therapists, healers, and coaches and I went deep into debt. But paying off that debt is nothing compared to looking like you’re living life on the outside while your soul is shriveling up, starving, and dying on the inside.

And I’d choose it all again if I had to.

Because:

I learned that I am a survivor. I discovered that I have a real gift for helping people. I found out that there is an entire world of possibilities that I didn’t know existed. I found at that the people in my life could survive without me and I could survive without them. I have a relationship that I never dreamed was possible because I never had a clue that this type of relationship existed. And, I learned that even though I made (and will continue to make) mistakes, there’s a gift in each and every one and I know how to see it.

I learned a different way of living life, a different way of having and doing relationships, and I learned me.

I get it. I get that in order to have what you want, you sometimes have to make huge sacrifices….and that sometimes those sacrifices can haunt you. And sometimes all that you’re sacrificing is what’s not working.

I share my life with and struggles with you daily because I want you to see what it really takes. I want you to know that change is possible.

And if I’m going to be really honest, I have the tools to help you make the change you say you want because of what I went through and because of all the money I have spent on healing and learning…and because it’s what I was put here to do and I’m damn good at it……

BUT…..

You have to make the choice to want it…..over and over and over….because it ain’t going to be comfortable.

Are you willing to make the choice to take back your life? Are you willing to do what it takes? Are you willing to say yes to you? Are you willing to stop starving your soul and begin nourishing it so you can do what you came here to do and be what you came here to be if you don’t what that looks like yet?

Much love and abundant blessings,
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