Some of you need to walk through the fire in order to feel like you’ve done something worthwhile. You thrive on the challenge and find freedom in the pain. And sometimes the fire just pulls at your soul. 
There are people who make you feel wrong for that. But what if that’s simply who you are?
I don’t need to agree with your need to walk through the fire. But if you accept it, instead of trying to be something or someone different, you’ll feel a hell of a lot more alive and be more likely to not only succeed but to feel satisfied with and proud of what you’ve done.
It’s time for you to stop trying to fit into someone else’s mold.
