Most people live from their wounds…and when you get that, you’ll be able to take fewer things personally and your life will get a whole lot easier.
Think about it….anger is a result of pain. Sadness is a result of pain. Hatred is a result of pain.
Love and compassion live in the parts of you that feel whole and complete.
In the past month or so, I’ve had my feelings hurt more times than I can count. Some words were spoken with malice and intent….and others were a result of pure ignorance.
The thing is, none of it would have been so painful if those particular wounds were completely healed….OR….if I chose to be shut off from my feelings and emotions….but if you know me, I don’t live my life walled off from emotions.
So the next time someone says something or does something that hurts, remember that they are speaking to you from their wounds.
And remember it hurts because your wounds have not yet healed.
Don’t accept what they say or did as truth. Because it’s not….
And at the same time wounds never lie.
What do I mean by that?
I mean that wounds will tell you the truth about how whole and complete you feel in that area of your life or relationship.
And they tell the truth about how whole and complete the person who spoke the words or took the action feels about themselves.
There’s so much more to say about this…but I can’t get the words out right now….so I’m going to trust that this is enough for now.
Don’t let your wounds or the wounds of others keep you achieving your dreams.
I love you.
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Much love and abundant blessings,
2 thoughts on “People Live From Their Wounds”
This was a beautiful truth and said perfectly. We all have wounds and hurt from others, that would not hurt so much if we understood why it was coming from the other person and that it was the other persons pain not ours. We should feel badly for their pain but not necessarily have to embrace it.
Exactly, have empathy but don’t embrace their pain. 🙂